Happy Hearts Day!

Grabe halos bumaha ng flowers, chocolates, bears and other stuffs sa buong dlsu, even sa lrt kanina, every girl ata me hawak na something for valentines! wahahaha!

Anyway comment lang ako sa Valentines day and about my love life so far and my beliefs and standards about love.. ehemmmm..

First of all, I think people misinterpret Valentines day and then associating it with love. I’ve read a history about St. Valentine and February 14 kasi is commemorating the death of Valentine and the fact that they associate love with Valentine is because Valentine was jailed and he kept sending “Valentine” letters(cards?!) to a girl who is supposed to be the jailor’s daughter. Nakalagay daw kasi dun sa letter sa huli “from your Valentine”. Some people said that the letter is supposed to be the first Valentines card to be given. Kaya yun whenever it is Valentines Day it also the day of love.

I remember, one of my friends ask me naman kung what are my views about Valentines day. Based on what ive read, Valentines day is a pagan occasion and therefore as Christians we shouldn’t celebrate it. But for me, it is ok naman icelebrate yun, kaya ng sinabi ko rin na we should celebrate Hearts day and not celebrate Valentines death. >_<

Anyway, there are lot of people still questioning me, “Oh, kamusta ka naman sa la sale, meron ka na  ba gf diyan?!” O_o Many people are also wondering bakit wala nga ako girlfriend.. hayyy.. I remember one of my friend, almost recently lang din, said to me ang TORPE ko daw! Wahahaha! Babae pa ang nagsabi sa kin natorpe daw ako! >_< Some people even said me,”Siguro bakla ka noh?!” ayyy! Wahaha joke.. @_@ Honestly, to tell you the truth, if personally I really want a girlfriend, sa tingin ko meron ako nun if ever right now. (*hu, yabang!) Pero yun nga yung point eh, kasi I DON’T WANT TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND sa ngaun. Sabi ko nga, I really want to finish college first before having a relationship with someone. “ARAL MUNA bago PAGIBIG!”

Actually, gusto ko rin na dapat stable muna ako *especially financially. Kasi tignan niyo, if ever maggf ako ngaun, then for example kain kunwari sa labas, then the fact that the money that im using for my date is my parents money! Parang ganito, “Mommy, pahigi ng pera para pangdate ko” wahaha.. toinks.. >_< syempre gusto ko pagsarili kong pera pangagastos ko, di ba?!

Another thing that I want to kasi if ever I will enter into a relationship, gusto ko is that my first gf will be my wife! Wahaha.. kahit sounds impossible pero actually I know some people who are like that. Kasi tignan niyo yung iba, sandali lang parati yung relationship nila,paminsan ilang months lang. I don’t know why people want to have a relationship agad, this is the problem with people,eh, this ‘gaya-gaya’ mentality, something like ”yung friend ko merong boyfriend dapat ganun din ako para I can show them na merong nagcare sa kin” hayyy.. ganun lang ba?! HELLO WORLD!!! Magising na kayu sa katotohanan! Actually,we don’t need a other person to “care” for us, kasi there is a God who cares for us much more than any other person can give! Kaya talaga wag kayu mamamadali pumasok sa isang relationship! I tell you TRUE LOVE REALLY WAITS! Mom and dad ko nga 30+ years old (*almost 40 na rin ata) na sila nagpakasal.. don’t worry hindi kayu mauubusan ng lalake or babae sa mundo! Just remember that God has already prepared someone for you, maybe hindi mo pa siya kilala ngaun, but someday God will reveal it to you in the PERFECT TIME! Kaya wag din kayu maging obsess sa isang tao ngaun, na feeling niyo siya na talaga yung pakakasalan niyo someday, remember, marami pang pwede mangyari.

For me, ok lang din magkaroon ng crush. I remember one of the youth pastors in one of our Bible studies said that it is really impossible for a person to have no crush to someone else. I dont want to use this word pero the thing that he really said is ”Katangahan na ata kung wala kang crush sa isang person”. I really cant forget that quote… yah, I mean it, everyone has a crush. Pero talaga for me the start of a relationship is friendship. Dapat friends muna kayu, kasi through that you can know each other well. Syempre all people has its good attitudes and syempre bad attitudes as well. Then before starting a relationship, you should really ask God if this person is the right person for you. Ok lang naman to pray for that person eh, and sabi ko nga God will reveal it through many ways if he or she is the right person and you really have to wait for God’s answer.

Last thing that I want to share is true love is not falling in love but rather GROWING in love. Yun nga common problems with relationships because people tend to “fall” in love to a person especially through its physical appearance and good attitudes, but when they’ve learned thei bad attitudes then hiwalay na or ayaw mo na sa kanya. So it really differs wth “growing in love”, dun people will develop a stronger relationships and ang maganda pa dun is that both persons openly share their own weaknesses and negative attitudes and through that, they can change their bad ways.   

Wahaha.. marami pa ako gusto sabihin about love pero super hahaba lang ito sobra.. hay, feeling ko ako na naman si Dr. Love.. :))

Anyway, kahit wala ako “kavalentines” today, im really happy with it! I tell you.. MASARAP MAGING SINGLE! MABUHAY ang mga SINGLE! Happy Hearts Day to all of you! Even though wala kayu ka valentines today, we could still celebrate Gods love for us because he is always there  who loves us all more than other person :D